匂わせ とか チラつかせる という言い方は、必ず情欲とか欲望とかそういう猥褻で卑猥なセンスから、ワザと取って、使う人達を下品さの共犯者に仕立て上げているみたいですよね。
本来の言葉は、「仄めかす（ほのめかす）」という言い方なんだそうです。
良かった綺麗で上品な表記で。
教えて頂いてホッとしました。
私は元々、後に引っ掛かるような物言いをする相手からは、一切、その意向を受け取りません。
すぐその相手のことを消去しますし、後でそういえば、と話題にもしません。
自分の言動に責任を取らない人間のやり方だからです。
これも就学以前の子供のような態度に隠れて、相手に責任を押し付ける幼稚さと小狡さを感じて居ます。
私はそういう奴には、
「5才児ものまね上手ですね」とこれから言おうと決めています。
実は大阪の言葉、大阪弁を揶揄ってご本人達の目の前で使う人が沢山いるそうです。
その失礼な人達のことを「大阪ものまね」と言うそうです。
そこから転じてこのように呼ぶ予定です。
「5才児ものまね上手ですね」
と言うと、あえて誰も社会人がしない態度をいきなりご披露し、何故このような子供の真似を？ え、おかしい人なんだろうか？ と呆気に取られているのを、なぜか自分が勝利したと勘違いしているようなんです。
それを制止しようと後日、「そんな子供じみた真似をするのは止めろ」と言っても
子供文法で言い返せないから、注意に逃げていると思っているみたいですね。
私も20歳頃に当時50過ぎの背広を来た男性にヤられたんですよ、びっくりでしょう？
錯乱してそんな反応を返しているんじゃ無さそうで、
自分で
「俺は人が嫌がることをするのが好きなんだよ」と言って居ました。
最近では、相手にするのが時間のムダな人達のことを「タイパ 」と呼んだり、すぐ感動バナシに擦り寄ってきて自分もその感動に便乗しようとする人達の事を「感動ポルノ」と呼んだりしているそうですね。
繋げると「感動ポルノタイパ」となり、また同じ層にこういう人達が多いと言っています。
今までは同様の言葉を言う人達、同様の要素を持つ人達を指してその言葉で”〇〇”と別の層や別の世代の人達が言っていましたが、 ここに来てそう呼ぶ人達のことを指すあだ名に変わったようです。
主に小学校からの社交マナーでワザと奇声を発したり、誰もしないような家でやるだけの子供態度をやる子供から大人まで、全員「5才児ものまね」と呼んではどうでしょうか？
沈黙の世代としては「5才児ものまね上手ですね」と胸の中でのあだ名として呼ぶのを勧めます。
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Apparently, the original term is “honomekasu” (to hint at).
I’m glad it’s such a beautiful and refined way to put it.
I’m relieved you told me that.
I’m glad it’s such a beautiful and refined way to put it.
I’m relieved you told me that.
Apparently, the original term is “honomekasu” (to hint at).I’m glad it’s such a beautiful and refined way to put it.I’m relieved you.
I’ll immediately block that person, and I won’t even bring them up later as a topic of conversation.
That’s because it’s the behavior of someone who doesn’t take responsibility for their own words and actions.
Behind this behavior, which resembles that of a preschooler, I sense a childishness and cunning that shifts the blame onto others.
I’ve decided that from now on, whenever I encounter someone like that,
I’ve decided to say, “You’re really good at imitating a 5-year-old child.
Actually, it seems there are a lot of people who mock the Osaka dialect—Osaka-ben—by using it right in front of the people who actually speak it.
Apparently, those rude people are called “Osaka impersonators.”
Based on that, I plan to refer to it this way.
When I say,
“You’re good at mimicking a 5-year-old child, aren’t you?”
When I say,
“You’re good at mimicking a 5-year-old child, aren’t you?”
When he says that, he suddenly starts acting in a way that no working adult would ever dare to—and when people are left dumbfounded, wondering, “Why is he acting like a child? Wait, is he crazy?”—he seems to mistakenly believe that he’s won.
When I tried to stop him later and said, “Stop acting so childish,”
It seems like he thinks I’m just resorting to scolding him because I can’t talk back using “kids’ grammar.” (From the movie “Hook”)
When I was around 20, I was taken advantage of by a man in his 50s wearing a suit—surprising, isn’t it?
It didn’t seem like he was just responding that way out of confusion;
He used to say
“I like doing things that other people hate,” he used to say.
Recently, I’ve heard that people who are a waste of time are called “Tipa(taipa),”(Time Performance) and those who immediately latch onto heartwarming stories to ride the wave of that emotion are called “Emotional Porn.”
Put together, it becomes “Emotional Porn Tipa(taipa),” and he says there are many people like this in the same demographic.
Until now, people from different social groups or generations used that term to refer to others who spoke in a similar way or shared certain characteristics—but it seems that, recently, it has shifted to become a nickname for the people who actually use that term themselves.
How about we refer to everyone—from children who, based on social manners they’ve learned mainly in elementary school, deliberately make strange noises or act in ways typical of children who only behave that way at home—all the way up to adults—as “5-Year-Old Impersonators”?
As a member of the Silent Generation, I recommend calling them by a nickname you keep to yourself, such as, “That 5-year-old childrn is good at impersonations.”
